orangestory

First and foremost, lemme greet everyone who celebrate St. Valentine's Day a very happy valentine's day!

Me? Well, i treat valentine's day as nothing special. There are reasons behind it, though..

First.
Valentine's day is a day when we celebrate love, when we tell our loved ones how much we love them. My opinion is, well, why 14th February? I mean, isn't everyday the day when we cherish love from our loved ones? Isn't everyday the day when we show our love to people?

Second.
Loving is not about chocolates, gifts, or roses. It is about giving. It is about sacrifice. It is about commitment. Ok. Perhaps you sacrifice your money to buy gifts, but what is important is not about the gifts. It is about the commitment that you have towards the person. There is no point buying him or her chocolates when you do not intend to love the person until the end of your life. You don't show off your love to someone. Your loved ones can straight away feel that you truly love him/her, when you really do love him/her. If you think that your girl likes roses, and when you buy her a bunch of roses will make her day, then go ahead. Just do things with the right motivation, and don't give if you expect rewards in return. Don't give your girlfriend roses if you want sex in return. Don't give your boyfriend chocolates if you want some words of love from him. Just give and that's it.


Well, seriously speaking, i don't see a sense in teenage dating. To me, dating someone is to know the person more mentally and spiritually. NOT PHYSICALLY! Dating someone is just one step before the real big thing: marriage. It is the time when know the person more personal, and make these big decisions: am i able to love him/her in whatever situations? Am I able to love the person, to sacrifice for the person, to accept him/her whoever, whatever he or she is until the end of my life? For guys: Is she really the one who carries my missing rib? For girls: Is he the owner of this rib i am carrying?
If your question is, -sorry- how big is your $#%&#$%& *cencored*, then it is certainly NOT love. It is lusts.

Another one last thing. Your date and you will never suit each other. I have heard a lot from my friends who have problems with their girlfriends or boyfriends. When I asked why they broke up, their answers were "we don't suit each other." Friends, let me tell you something. A girl and a boy will NEVER suit each other. We are created to be different. You can tell straight away we are different in our physical appearance. Not only that, mentally, we are also different. Girls tend to take everything emotionally, while boys see everything logically. Girls can tell, while boys can do. We are different. That is why DATING is NEEDED. It is a period when you can learn to accept the person as what he or she is, to adjust yourself to be with him, and to contribute your strengths so as to cover his weaknesses. (and vice versa, of course).

Oops. I think i have talked too much. Is this a blog, or an online lecture? LOL. You could say that spoken is a lot easier than done. This may be easy for me who has never been into a relationship before. Friends, temptations will always be there. Stay away from them and believe that God will give you a lot more that you can never imagine.

One really really last thing for indonesians in Singapore (singaporean or other non-indonesian speaking friends can close their eyes on this):
YOU ARE INVITED for a COOL event this month! Check diz out!!



Interested parties please contact me HERE, and tell me which session you are attending. The location for the event is in Bestway Building, 12 Prince Edward Road (10 minutes walk from Tanjong Pagar MRT, I can give you some directions if you need). Any queries please do not hesitate to ask me. Oh.. the workshop and talkshow is about love and BGR, how to maintain the relationship, etc etc..and will be discussed in a fun and unforgettable way. This will be conducted in Indonesian. The drama for the concert will take around 30 minutes, and is rumoured to be fantastic. I think they will also be providing some meals before the concert for fellowship purposes, but I am not sure about this. So come and join TLG, for this very special thing this February! Looking forward to seeing you on that very dayy!! =D =D

C ya!

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